12 February 2010
How to make your prof ♥ you
Clear out some time. If a prof’s door is open, knock and ask if you can come in. If you’re too intimidated by dropping in, email and ask for an appointment. Once you get in the office, ask this magic question:
“Could you tell me a bit about your research?”
Be ready for a loooooong conversation. Because the truth is, not very many people ask about our research, so to have anyone showing any sort of interest is something we enjoy. Heck, very often even our own colleagues don’t ask what we’re working on most of the time.
That conversation can totally change the tone of your dialogue with your professor – in a good way – for a long time. Think about it. Which conversation do you think a professor would rather have?
“Can you tell me about your research?”
versus some variation of:
“Can you sign this form?”
“Can you calculate my best possible grade for your class?”
“Can I take a make-up exam?”
Which conversation do you think a prof would rather have? And which conversation do you think a prof has more often?